Best Sex Toys for Couples: A Buying Guide to Spice Up Intimacy

Spicing up your intimate life doesn’t have to be complicated. Whether you’re new to toys or looking to add a little excitement, the right couple’s toy can deepen connection and open up new kinds of pleasure. In this guide, we’ll walk you through the best sex toys for couples, how to choose them, and how to use them together with confidence.

From vibrators designed for dual stimulation to lubricants that make everything smoother, we’ll cover the essentials. You’ll also find tips on communication and setting the mood, because the best toy in the world won’t help if you’re not both comfortable and excited.

Why Couples Should Explore Sex Toys Together

Using sex toys as a couple isn’t about fixing something broken—it’s about adding variety, building intimacy, and learning more about each other’s bodies. Many couples find that introducing a toy sparks new conversations and breaks routines. It can also help bridge differences in desire or arousal, making sex more satisfying for both partners.

A toy like The Surfer, a dual-stimulation vibrator, can be used during foreplay or intercourse, giving both partners new sensations. Even a simple lubricant like Smile Makers’ silicone-based gel can enhance comfort and pleasure, making the experience more enjoyable for everyone.

• Start with a conversation: talk about what you’re curious about and what feels good.
• Pick a toy that suits your shared interests, whether it’s clitoral stimulation, G-spot play, or something else.

Choosing the Right Toy for Both of You

When selecting a toy for couples, consider factors like size, shape, and how you plan to use it. If you’re new to toys, a beginner-friendly option like The Neighbor, a slim vibrator, is a great start. It’s easy to handle and can be used for external stimulation or during intercourse.

For couples who enjoy shared stimulation, a couple’s vibrator like The Romantic is designed to be worn during sex, stimulating the clitoris while you’re close. If you’re exploring anal play, The Whisperer is a slim, beginner-friendly vibrating butt plug that can add a new dimension to your play. Remember, the best toy is one that both of you are excited to try.

• Think about what kind of stimulation you both enjoy: clitoral, vaginal, anal, or all of the above.
• Start with a smaller, less intimidating toy if you’re new to this.

How to Use Sex Toys with Your Partner

Using a toy together is all about taking your time and focusing on each other’s pleasure. Start by using the toy on your partner, letting them guide you on speed and pressure. Then, try using it during intercourse—many couples find that adding clitoral stimulation during sex enhances their connection.

For example, The Surfer is perfect for this: its curved shape hits the G-spot while the external arm stimulates the clitoris. You can also use a lubricant like Smile Makers’ gel to make everything more comfortable. Always use plenty of lube, especially with vibrators, to reduce friction and increase sensation.

• Use a toy on your partner first to learn what they like.
• Incorporate the toy into foreplay or intercourse to see what works best.

Top Picks for Couples from Smile Makers

Smile Makers offers a range of toys designed with couples in mind. The Surfer is a popular choice for its dual stimulation, while The Romantic is perfect for hands-free play. If you’re looking for a gift, the Here Come The Vibes bachelorette set includes a few toys to explore together.

Don’t forget the essentials: a good lubricant like Smile Makers’ sex lubricant gel and wipes like Silky (S)wipes for clean-up. These small additions can make a big difference in your experience. And when you’re done, store your toys in a Pleasure Case to keep them clean and ready for next time.

• Consider a toy that stimulates both partners, like The Surfer.
• Pair your toy with a quality lubricant for the best experience.

Exploring sex toys together can bring you closer and add excitement to your relationship. Start with a toy that feels right for both of you, communicate openly, and don’t forget the lube. With the right choice, you’ll discover new levels of intimacy and pleasure.